It is entirely understandable that you should be cautious. You need to be able to remain in control of how everything works out for you. On the other hand, it is perhaps worth reflecting upon the extent to which exJWs' experience of life within with WT movement might have led to habits which could put up barriers among member of the exJW community.
And as a post-script, I can honestly say that if there is anyone out there who might have known me in JWs days, I would neither out you nor would I pursue any religious or political agenda.